I see it everyday. I know families who get parent aides to come into their house 8-10 hours a day to help them clean and teach them parenting skills. And these people don't work or anything. I NEED HELP CLEANING BECAUSE I HAVE A FULL TIME JOB. But I'm not eligible for a free maid!
My husband's cousin owns his own business and makes his income look so low that he and his wife get WIC for their three children. I'd be ashamed!